5 Ways to Increase Your Femininity

Feminine energy is something we all have. It is the energy of love, kindness, empathy and self-awareness. And on the other hand, it can be the act of taking care of yourself both physically and mentally. Here are some tips on how to increase your femininity.


Taking care of yourself is the most important thing you can do for yourself. And something you should make time for every day. Sometimes just by looking in the mirror, we can become a little more aware of our cute top. And how that top makes us feel.

You can begin your self-care with your hair. You probably haven’t noticed that most women usually wear their hair every single day the same way. And there are so many options for making your hair accentuate your natural beauty. With so many great hair accessories your hair can shine in the most simple yet obvious way. The trend of hair clips, colorful bobby pins, etc. is back in style and really big this season. This look can give you that girly look instantly.

As for your skin, it’s never too early to start using a mild face cream. You don’t have to put it on 5 times a day. Just in the morning, or right after a shower. By pampering yourself you will get the feeling of self-love and delicacy which is the prime feminine feeling. You can also use something natural like coconut oil, olive oil or a mix of the two. The important thing is to find something that suits you and helps your skin to be beautiful and soft.

Get Rid of Negativity

Stress has sadly become a part of everyday life. Everyone experiences it in one way or another. And sometimes we can’t control these stressors and can get anxious, mad or sad. But there are certain things we can control in our life, and one of them is social media. There are tons of social platforms today and everyone wants your attention. Some are more popular than others like Instagram or YouTube. And almost everyone has them.It’s been said that social media can increase depression, anxiety, sadness, etc. Why is that? Well as you may know Instagram is the place of people’s highlights right? You won’t get a picture of someone crying in their lowest part of life in your feed.

The pictures presented are usually from beautiful women on perfect sand beaches drinking cocktails or something like that. And you sit there in your pajamas and can’t help the feeling that you are unworthy or get the feeling of envy. There is a super simple solution to this problem. Unfollow them. Yes, it is that simple. You get to control who you follow and what you like. So if someone makes you feel these negative thoughts and feelings you know what to do. There is enough negativity in the real world already.

Build Confidence

Confidence has been talked about a lot. And it should be because of many of us today lack of it. And that can be the source of many downfalls in your life. Being confident means that you can embrace every part of yourself and be proud of who you are and what you have accomplished. And that goes for the whole you. From your character to your looks. Maybe you think you talk too much or too little. Maybe you express your feelings out in the open or never do. That’s just who you are.

Your character was built that way through the course of your whole life. If there is something that really bothers you then you should make an effort to change that. But if other people tell you that you should change something because it’s not in alignment with their opinion on how someone should behave or look than forget about it. Being happy in your own skin and embracing your womanhood is so important. Confidence is like a muscle. You have to work on it every day and try to get out of your comfort zone. That is the place where you will grow and where the real self-improvement journey begins.

Surround Yourself With other Women

It’s very important to have positive people around you. People who inspire you and make you want to be a better person in every way. Sometimes we can forget how important it is to actually sit with your girlfriends and just have a laugh. This is where feminine energy shines. And that doesn’t mean that all of you should be a girly girl. Everyone has feminine energy in themselves. Which is consistent from kindness, openness, empathy, etc.

It doesn’t mean that your boyfriend, husband or any male friend lacks in these attributes. It’s just that sometimes it’s easier to connect with another female. And by surrounding yourself with other women who are strong and who embrace themselves as they are, will make you want to do that too. And better yourself in every way possible.


Journaling can be a life-changing habit. You come home from work the day has been full of ups and downs and you just take your beautiful journal and start venting. When you look back on the pages you filled you can see how you’ve changed and how you’ve grown. This is the perfect way to get a little more aware of yourself.

There is a big increase in popularity in bullet journaling. Here you can schedule all of your daily obligations and at the same time set some things you want to achieve that day. Maybe even schedule your pampering in the morning or in the evening.

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