I, unlike some people believe that one can be too thin (rich is another matter). Hollywood and the fashion industry for years have set a standard for what people should look like that is truly unrealistic.

(Lara Flynn Boyle, left)

The average sized woman in the United States is a 10-12. This is not necessarily fat (depending on your height). Many women actually have breasts (imagine) that without them may fit into a 6.

I personally like to see a woman with a woman’s figure, not a 12 year old boy.

(Salma Hayek, right)

Within the same line of thought, I don’t like to see women that are overly muscular. There’s a difference between being fit and looking like an Olympian.

Most men like to hold onto someone who is soft and a little supple. Feeling bones is like being with a dead person and feeling muscle is like being with a man.

On the other side of the coin, muscle on men is perfectly acceptable.

(Sebastian Rulli, right)